“I think that women are foolish to pretend they are equal to men. They are far superior and always have been. Whatever you give a woman, she will make it greater. If you give her a sperm, she will give you a baby. If you give her a house, she will give you a home. If you will give her groceries, she will give you meal. If you give her a smile, she will give you her heart. She multiplies and enlarges what is given to her. So, if you give a crap, be ready to receive a ton of shit.” These words were said by William Golding (British novelist). Dear better half of this world, first of all I would like to wish you a very happy Women’s Day.
I think that it was William Golding who judged women correctly. There is no comparison between women and men. Women are far superior to men. They are the perfect synonym of unselfishness and sacrifice. I don’t think that there is any man on the earth who wakes up about 4 am in the morning for his family whole year. I have seen many men waking up at 4 am in the morning. But they wake up for their own benefits like for their health, study, practice etc. But not for their family that too for entire year. Since the evolution of mankind, women have dedicated everything they had. Most of them have dedicated their entire lives sitting in just one kitchen.
There is a proverb that “Behind every successful man, there is a woman.” It is 100% true. Because women support men at that time when men themselves feel that they cannot achieve anything. Every man on the earth retires after some age. But I have never seen a mother retiring from doing her duty until she is dead.
But still we (men) underestimate them. We neglect them. We hit them. We suppress them. But as William Golding said that if you give her a crap, be ready to receive tons of shit. They are not going to be suppressed. They have learned to bounce back with double intensity. I feel that woman has done enough to fight for equality. They have survived enough. They have protested enough. Now it’s time for men to accept the reality.
There is no need to say our daughters to not wear this and that. There is a need to teach our sons to how to respect a woman. There is a need to teach our sons to how to cook. There is a need to teach our sons to how to do all household chores. There is a need to teach our sons that the most beautiful curve on a woman’s body is her smile. If boys want to whistle at girls then they should better whistle at their certificates, their achievements, their medals, their Olympic medals, etc. I would like to borrow some words from Rahul Kaushik that “Dear men, when a girl bends down and her cleavage shows up, then either lower down your eyes or lower down your character. The choice is yours!” It is we men who start judging women. But first we need to reach up to that level from where we can judge them because they far superior than us.
Dear better half of this world, “Thank You”. I know that thank you is not enough. It can never be. But unfortunately, the English vocabulary does not contain that word which can define you. Not only English, no vocabulary on this earth contains that word which can define you. So all I can say is “Thank You”